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Sign language in business dialogue

Sign language in business dialogue

As is known, people far not always say that think. But to become rather successful, it is necessary to learn to distinguish true thoughts of the interlocutor. How to get this skill? With it we will be helped by a sign language. It is surprising, as, having studied only its most bases, it is possible to change the perception of people and their perception you.

Researches show, that for heads impression which is created by the employee, not less important, than results of its work. It is difficult to you to believe in it? Then recollect, there were no on your way people who from itself did not represent anything, but, nevertheless, worked on high enough post?

Large quantity of modern technologies which surround us, promote that we lose skills of live dialogue. We write e-mail or we speak on the phone more often, than we communicate personally. So – also we wean to watch a sign language. However scientists confirm: that you speak, means much less, than how you speak it. Therefore if you wish to achieve success in business and to construct successful career, you need to watch:

1. Behind the voice. Avoid too high and sharp sounds. Try, that your voice sounded softly and pleasantly for an ear of listeners. Also do not hasten – too high speed of speech forces the interlocutor to perceive subconsciously you as the unauthoritative person.

2. Behind the pose and gestures. Here the most widespread negative gestures which should be avoided most and to pay attention to their occurrence in the interlocutor:

The hands crossed on a breast mean, that the interlocutor takes of a defensive position or is not interested that you speak to it. Than hands are more strong compressed and the above they are crossed on a breast, the its negative emotion is more brightly expressed.

If the interlocutor fingers hair are gives out its fear, fear, uncertainty in.

If it taps with a foot on a floor, swings it is means impatience or desire somewhat quicker to finish your conversation.

postukivanie the handle or a pencil on a table means boredom - to your interlocutor, obviously more often, has bothered you to listen.  

Rocking on a chair or on heels gives out the infantile person in the interlocutor or means, that he feels not protected, to it nekomfortno to be in given conditions.

If the interlocutor, sitting on a chair, accepts too weakened pose – it makes impression too lazy or haughty.

pozhimanie shoulders signals that your interlocutor does not believe that has been told. Even if it he has told.

potiranie an ear means, that the interlocutor fluctuates and the definitive decision cannot make.

If the interlocutor constantly touches the person is a sign of nervousness or dishonesty.

If it turns a neck here and there is can mean, that he tests stress or … flirts.

potiranie hands means, that the interlocutor about something worries.

To become the expert in a sign language, it is necessary to develop in itself attentiveness: constantly to watch how people with whom you communicate behave. And also to study own habits – for example, before a mirror.

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