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Barbarian Diordieva - the lawyer, an analyst.
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Lady Boss and the man

Motives of sex

The requirement for sex is one of base requirements of the person. At the same time, entering intimate affinity, the person reaches one or several purposes from among resulted more low.

• the Discharge of sexual pressure, satisfaction of physiological requirement (42 % interrogated).

• to express the love or to feel the favourite person (40 %).

• sort Continuation.

• Reception of sensual pleasure.

• Satisfaction of sexual curiosity.

• the Exit from loneliness, an establishment of close relations.

• Check of (especially it is characteristic for teenagers and for diffident, disturbing adults).

• Achievement of definite purposes - the material plan (for example, a marriage of convenience).

• Achievement of the psychological purposes ("to spite of" someone or for prestige - celebrity "autograph", for example).

• debt Execution (spouses, for example, but not only; the majority of men considers itself obliged not to give up, if the woman offers itself).

• the Payment (for any services or the blessings).

• the Concession domoganijam persons from whom are in dependence.

• to Subordinate the partner or to adhere to itself the partner.

• Self-affirmation by means of number of sexual victories (a version of "sports of high achievements").

Man's sexuality

Sex for the man is simultaneously pleasure and work which necessarily demands success and achievement (for example, orgazma). On the foreground quantity indicators - number of women, quantity of the spent certificates are thus put forward. It is put in pawn in the man's nature: after all that biologically the kind has been protected from degeneration, man's individuals should impregnate the maximum number of the female.

Thus objective acknowledgement of "efficiency" are necessary to men. The man receives the most powerful acknowledgement of the solvency from the woman.

Men are exclusively sexual and estimate women within only 7 seconds. As one has told, "women parade the hearts, men can parade the hormones".

Female sexuality

Sexuality of the woman differs the raised selectivity and vulnerability. These qualities it is traced at female individuals of the most various representatives of fauna on all extent of evolution. Females are more selective, as at an unsuccessful choice of the male they lose more (have no posterity or have posterity of bad quality - to it it after long vynashivanija and sorts).

Sexuality on Freud

The most influential sexological theory of first half of XX-th century was, certainly, Zigmunda Freud's psychoanalysis. Psychoanalysis as the philosophical and psychological theory and as the method of treatment of neurosises, certainly, is much wider than a sexological problematics.

Unlike the majority of the predecessors, Z.Freud considers sexuality not as private, local, aspect of a human life, and as its basis and a core. The sexual inclination, "libido", makes, on Z.Freud, a source of all mental energy of the individual, and any emotional satisfaction he names sexual. A kernel of that we name love, - Z.Freud, - the sexual love which purpose is the sexual affinity wrote. This inclination lays and at the heart of such "not sexual" feelings, as love to, parental and filial love, friendship, love to mankind as a whole and even attachment to concrete subjects and abstract ideas. All of them, on Z.Freud, "an essence of display of the same instinctive impulses".

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