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Guest marriage – pro and contra
During an epoch of general emancipation marriage where two, the husband and the wife, live in different apartments, and sometimes and in different cities, surprises the few.
Actually this phenomenon not the modern. At all times there are those who having disdained social foundations lives how considers it necessary. Including in marriage.
Badly it or is good, to solve to a two.
However problems arising in connection with popularisation of guest marriage, it is society problems. Initially, occurrence of guest marriage has been caused by that people occupied, financially secure, whose work and employment demanded constant presence, arranged the home life so that neither the husband, nor the wife did not stir to work. It sounds for the majority of us strange, but, nevertheless, so.
In actor's and other families where people are occupied, first of all, by creativity, instead of family affairs, it is norm. It does not mean, that in such families nobody to care about each other. At all is not present. Simply degree of responsibility the friend for the friend is so small, that to it is not given values. Everyone bears responsibility for. Actually, duration of guest marriage is not great. People if between them really there are feelings, as a result pass a stage of advances with freedom, and start to live in traditional marriage. Sooner or later it happens. Or does not happen. In a word, as a matter of fact guest this marriage a usual matrimony. Which result can become either divorce or a strong family.
Problems begin when people do not understand, that actually represents guest marriage. Such marriage can be considered as original engagement, before the present home life, but when people seriously decide what to live separately and it is family to name normal, there are problems.
The first problem – absence of responsibility. Apartments separate. To divide there is nothing. Works different. Money to distribute to what. Illusion of relations which as a matter of fact are not present is created. And which that and other partner can break off any minute.
Problem the second. If in such marriage there are children as a matter of fact such family becomes a family of single mother.
Problem the third. Guest marriage more often marriage under the arrangement, that is has character of market relations. You to me, I to you. During any moment there is a question – and where feelings?
However sociologists assert, that in the near future guest marriage becomes norm of a society.
In similar marriage some problems which seem unsoluble in traditional dare. The basic problem – accustoming. In guest marriage of such problem does not arise.
Here on the first place there are not feelings, and their comfort for both spouses. Comparisons the most banal. Imagine, every day is a buckwheat cereal? In a month you will begin to hate this porridge. It turns out, that "partner" appears analogue of food. Imagine such recipe of happiness: carefully washed up and roasted in a sun deck before formation of a ruddy crust of the husband to accept three-four times a month before a dream. It is desirable in odd days and in no event on revivals.
Traditional marriage such melancholy! Represent: every morning you rise and first of all see the same uncle (it the husband). Probably, it even is unshaven, snores and does not lift behind itself a toilet bowl seat. Voobshchem, he to you absolutely precisely prevents to live, does not take out dust, does not do repair.
Marriage on the Internet can shortly become alternative to guest marriage. And why is not present? Sex on the Internet (safely and comfortably), after all about comfort and personal safety those who lives in guest marriages care.
No, there are certainly exceptions. Alan Rikman, for example, lives 30 years in guest marriage, and in any offences is not noticed. But where Alan Rikman and where we, simple inhabitants?
In a word, guest marriage it can and is not bad, whether but marriage it actually?
The author: Anna C. Badly it or is good, to solve to a two.
However problems arising in connection with popularisation of guest marriage, it is society problems. Initially, occurrence of guest marriage has been caused by that people occupied, financially secure, whose work and employment demanded constant presence, arranged the home life so that neither the husband, nor the wife did not stir to work. It sounds for the majority of us strange, but, nevertheless, so.
In actor's and other families where people are occupied, first of all, by creativity, instead of family affairs, it is norm. It does not mean, that in such families nobody to care about each other. At all is not present. Simply degree of responsibility the friend for the friend is so small, that to it is not given values. Everyone bears responsibility for. Actually, duration of guest marriage is not great. People if between them really there are feelings, as a result pass a stage of advances with freedom, and start to live in traditional marriage. Sooner or later it happens. Or does not happen. In a word, as a matter of fact guest this marriage a usual matrimony. Which result can become either divorce or a strong family.
Problems begin when people do not understand, that actually represents guest marriage. Such marriage can be considered as original engagement, before the present home life, but when people seriously decide what to live separately and it is family to name normal, there are problems.
The first problem – absence of responsibility. Apartments separate. To divide there is nothing. Works different. Money to distribute to what. Illusion of relations which as a matter of fact are not present is created. And which that and other partner can break off any minute.
Problem the second. If in such marriage there are children as a matter of fact such family becomes a family of single mother.
Problem the third. Guest marriage more often marriage under the arrangement, that is has character of market relations. You to me, I to you. During any moment there is a question – and where feelings?
However sociologists assert, that in the near future guest marriage becomes norm of a society.
In similar marriage some problems which seem unsoluble in traditional dare. The basic problem – accustoming. In guest marriage of such problem does not arise.
Here on the first place there are not feelings, and their comfort for both spouses. Comparisons the most banal. Imagine, every day is a buckwheat cereal? In a month you will begin to hate this porridge. It turns out, that "partner" appears analogue of food. Imagine such recipe of happiness: carefully washed up and roasted in a sun deck before formation of a ruddy crust of the husband to accept three-four times a month before a dream. It is desirable in odd days and in no event on revivals.
Traditional marriage such melancholy! Represent: every morning you rise and first of all see the same uncle (it the husband). Probably, it even is unshaven, snores and does not lift behind itself a toilet bowl seat. Voobshchem, he to you absolutely precisely prevents to live, does not take out dust, does not do repair.
Marriage on the Internet can shortly become alternative to guest marriage. And why is not present? Sex on the Internet (safely and comfortably), after all about comfort and personal safety those who lives in guest marriages care.
No, there are certainly exceptions. Alan Rikman, for example, lives 30 years in guest marriage, and in any offences is not noticed. But where Alan Rikman and where we, simple inhabitants?
In a word, guest marriage it can and is not bad, whether but marriage it actually?