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Success psychology

Success – business of a case or natural result of efforts?

And can be, the first is accompanied simply by good luck?

As though we would like to saddle it and to operate it that it during the necessary moment showed to us the blagoraspolozhenie and would promote our victories. All would like to be luckies. But it is destiny of the elite. So it is arranged in a life. For something …

We not begin to understand long for what, this question let solves everyone independently. But here to reflect on, how to involve the whimsical young lady-good luck, it is possible. And suddenly someone from readers yet does not know, that 99 % of success are a diligence, persistence and belief.

He who would eat the fruit, must climb the hill.

And even if the sky to you has a kind feeling, work at least to buy the lottery ticket. Something make, rise from a sofa, remove a can of beer, switch off the TV, the computer, the tape recorder and be engaged in business.

And to begin with decide, what for you success? That would you wish to reach in a life?

To become happy and rich …

But it is too indistinct. Without a concrete definition not to manage.

• Good luck loves those who accurately knows that he wants and is able to put before itself attainable aims. You necessarily should be defined, in which way you can reach it.

1. It is possible to begin the business.
2. It is possible to find well paid work.
3. It is possible to marry or marry successfully.
4. It is possible to make all it in a complex.
But here at once there are some excuses and conditions. When something, probably, it is necessary to offer, for example, the free time or independence.
In any case even if the god-send will sometime take in head to fall down on your head though time it all the same is strewed to lives on each of us, you should make any efforts that it to collect.

• Without efforts here not to manage in any way. It is necessary to be to it ready. Something all the same should be undertaken.

How the person was successful, he needs to work on success achievement.
That success grain has sprouted on your field, it, at least, should be impregnated by a moisture. And if the soil also sprouts will arise amicable is still fertilised and loosened, healthy and will give fine shoots of which you will take care and receive a good harvest. Here so. All cycle will be necessarily passed by you, from crops before harvesting. And in another way hardly at someone leaves. And if leaves, only incidentally.

• It is noticed, that good luck comes to people a lung, cheerful, cheerful which of the business, business, the enterprise, lives do not do a problem is more often.

Even if not all develops at once well and smoothly. They perceive a life as an eternal adventure on numerous paths of destiny, with pleasure and inquisitiveness open all new and new back streets of the life. And, at last, find that main room where they are waited by a precious treasure. And if all this way at times is similar to a labyrinth, do not despair. But only rejoice new possibility to take a fun, to something to learn, about something to think. Because everything, that with us occurs – invaluable experience which sometime necessarily is useful to us in a life. Some people think, that success achievement infernal, heavy, wearisome work. They torture themselves inconceivable, inhuman efforts but as it is paradoxical, smaller results, than those who has time to find among labour everyday life minute for own freedom at times reach, rest and development. If you think, that success achievement – infernal work, and your way will be such. Whether instead of it is necessary to you to change polarity of expectations and to think, what creative activity is not weight, not penal servitude, and pleasure of knowledge? Try, and your work will cease to oppress you. It becomes easy and joyful advance.

• Good luck loves people opened. Generous, nice the direct, natural naivete, the feeling other people seeing in them not enemies, and assistants and partners in this fascinating vital competition.

To such people help is more often, such people loves not only good luck. But also all associates. Because they do not build intrigues, do not harbour grudge, do not aspire to humiliate and deceive you. And as it is strange them too deceive less. Whether language that turns at associates to tell a disgusting word or to make meanness. In general, this true is not new. As the call, and will respond. It after all not casually the smile became the main argument in dialogue of Americans. They have understood this basic law of luck. Be benevolent and opened, help people, and people will love you.

• Because a following important point which involves good luck, ability of the person to ask and accept gifts is. Sometimes it seems to us that to ask humiliating. That all can be reached alone and nobody should be trusted in this life, except itself. As it is strange, the one who is afraid to trust in another and to accept their help, bring more often, betray and throw.

As if carry out its deep internal doubt in possibility of the human relation of people to each other. In general, by and large, all our conflicts, changes, treachery – only reflexions of our expectations, signals which ourselves send ourselves. Simply we are not able to read them.
Help people, search at them for the help, do not hesitate to tell about the requirements, learn to speak "is not present", respect itself, be not humiliated before strong, all will offer also all will give. If you manage correctly them about it to ask.
After all ability to ask is too some kind of a science in which an important point is preservation of own advantage.
Always it is very useful to remember that all highest chiefs both the most inaccessible handsome men and beauties – the same people as you. They have same weaknesses, the same errors, the same physical and psychological requirements. Do not look at them from below upwards. Be for them interesting interlocutors, the worthy partners, useful people with whom it would be desirable to deal. But for this purpose you should such become.

• Good luck loves those who hopes for it, and itself not ploshaet. Who is not afraid of difficulties and time failures. Who is persistent in achievement of the purpose and does not put a pad at the slightest trouble.

All difficulties are assistants, in them it is necessary to search for new possibilities for self-development.

• Good luck loves those who in it trusts. It is possible to repeat one thousand times to yourself as you wish something to reach.

It is possible to lay down to itself the aim and even to start to move to its achievement but if at heart you do not dare to take pleasure in triumph if you do not trust in realisation of the dream because it is not worthy good luck, or it is insufficiently good for it it will execute your wishes and will not come. Doubts in success half already became your defeat.

• And still good luck loves creative people who are able to take ideas even from lampposts. Or from butterflies.

Well you could to imagine, for example, it is possible to do what huge money on cultivation of butterflies? Butterflies? - You ask with astonishment. – What advantage of butterflies and to whom they are necessary? It appears very much even are necessary. Also it is connected just with belief in good luck. Only authors of idea needed to dream up and imagine a little bit as it can be beaten. It appears, the butterfly brings happiness in the house. Imagine, you give to the favourite person happiness in the beautiful box which has been tied up by a silk ribbon. The present, live, magic, fine exotic butterfly. Or it is a lot of butterflies, the whole fireworks of happiness. Tell, unless not beautiful idea? Same a unique gift for anniversary and wedding, a fine ornament of any holiday and the most important thing, pleasure which brings to people pleasure, and to its founders the big money, after all for pleasures likes to pay those who has such possibility. Here so!

It seems to me, I already have much enough resulted arguments for this purpose that you, at last, have believed, that good luck actually does not have favourites, that she loves all! And each of us in forces to make its happy rule of the life. For this purpose only it is necessary a little, it is not enough to put efforts, persistence and belief!

Irina Vlasenko